Nerds In Love Column: Reading The Signs

Nerds, Background: 25 M, never had a serious relationship, few hookups in college but none since. Been trying online dating and meeting girls in various settings. Getting dates does not seem to be a problem but I seem to be getting into my own head on every date because I’m too paranoid about “saying and…

Nerds In Love Column: The Friend Zone, and a follow up

Nerds, I like this girl at Starbucks. She was very sweet and wrote her number on my starbucks cup. So I texted her and we’ve been getting along. Then she asks me if I think this guy she’s into is cute. Fucking sucks. I’m not really an expert on dating but my friend told me…

Nerds In Love Column: Foreshadowed Cheating

I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months. We met on Tinder. He’s fun and we have a lot in common. Today he was showing me something on his phone in pictures and he scrolled by 2 pictures of a blonde girl in a bra. He moved his fingers to scroll fast when it…

Nerds In Love Column: Instagram Blues

Usually I’m very confident in myself and my relationship with my boyfriend. However lately I’ve been down on myself from lack of going to the gym and just general stress. I noticed on Instagram on the following tab my boyfriend followed 15 ish blonde bombshell playboy type models. We are usually the type to both…