Nerds In Love Column: Reading The Signs

Nerds, Background: 25 M, never had a serious relationship, few hookups in college but none since. Been trying online dating and meeting girls in various settings. Getting dates does not seem to be a problem but I seem to be getting into my own head on every date because I’m too paranoid about “saying and…

Nerds In Love Column: The Friend Zone, and a follow up

Nerds, I like this girl at Starbucks. She was very sweet and wrote her number on my starbucks cup. So I texted her and we’ve been getting along. Then she asks me if I think this guy she’s into is cute. Fucking sucks. I’m not really an expert on dating but my friend told me…

Nerds In Love Column: Foreshadowed Cheating

I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months. We met on Tinder. He’s fun and we have a lot in common. Today he was showing me something on his phone in pictures and he scrolled by 2 pictures of a blonde girl in a bra. He moved his fingers to scroll fast when it…